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Why is it that everyone seems to be looking for a lover/friend/whatever but nobody ever responds to an email or a smooch??
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billylen
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`Brian, I hear ya I know I am not the most perfect looking guy, but I also know that I have a lot to offer to the right person. Patience is key. I'm new to this site (and dating in general) and I have expressed interest in a few folks but no one responds. I am beginning to think that perhaps I am a troll! (naw). Here is the thing (for me), Maybe it will be a long time to meet the right person; maybe I will walk upon him in a store or on the street, but regardless of when or if it happens it has to be right or I will wind up wasting precious time and energy. To both of us I say keep on hoping, that right fit is out there...
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`You know what really 'pisses me off' ... is ... ok, well ... same thing as BRUSHGUY said. How many emails I have sent ... no response ... do these women not have their notifications set!!!??? Sorry you guys
are guy on guy ... anyways ... still applies
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`Personally i think that when ur positive you don't have the luxury of being picky like anyone that's negative,am not saying you should settle for less,but then again we're at a bigger disadvantage positive people aren't as many so when u smooch,flirt,email someone n u chat its ok until pictures are exchanged n automatically emotions change ppl become judgemental based on physical appearance alone personally i admit i've done that but 90 percent of me rejecting the dude was coz he was short am not very tall am only 5-7 n ;like a half but for some weird reason i seem to be the tallest in the room so dating a shorter man is a no-no-height aside,i think people have un-realistic expectations remember i said positive folks shouldn't be too picky of corse when ppl hear,HIV they run,so i think we should learn to accept n love ppl just the way they are,am African but live in the UK,my problem is,u go thru tons of profiles reading thru what other men are looking for n u may not match that criteria simlpy becoz (speaking for myself) am not stick thin,not caucasian or mixed race am not in America.canada Etc yes i do get that everyone has there preference on what they look for in a potential partner but,that is being unrealistic coz that ideal partner could be -ve no one in their ryt mind is gonna fall for u if ur +ve.so STOP being too choosy,racist n picky don't judge someone for what there like on the outside but give them n urself tym to get /grow onto each other ur ideal partner maybe across the continent don just search within ur region .i know its scary trying to date someone from across the world but who knows he/she could be what u've been looking for u never know.. those r my 2 cents...lol
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pentola
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`Been asking myself the same question...its hard to be in this situation,sometimes its just so frustrating...everyone needs a friend to talk or maybe just me ....i need people to talk to who are in the same situation but its not easy...maybe lets just keep hoping...maybe someday...
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barberboy1968
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`I know exactly what you mean. Ive been on countless amounts of dating sites and written all kinds of stuff in my profile, ive tried all different types of pictures too. But here i am 6 years of being single and still noone gets back in touch. Crazy. I know im not Brad Pitt but i also know that im not that bad. I have no trouble dating negative women, its just the people in same situation as me never want to know .......
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mrcheerio
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`just write that u r proffesion is pilot and ur hobbies sailing , diving,biking and the hysics wont matter any more. Try it, u cant loose...
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lordsmooth
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It seems finding a good woman that's HIV pos is just as challenging as finding a woman that doesn't have it but will accept u anyway. Majority of the profiles I see on here hasn't been logged into for months. Are u out there my future queen ?
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pozman777
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`and what to tell if one is Italian, living in Italy? It's IMPOSSIBLE, here, to find a match. anyway, never say never. The stigma about HIV is still a huge one, in some sense we all are pioneers.
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judee
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`Shyness can be a problem for women who are not use to this venue for meeting people, could be one reason we good positive woman are hard to find. I myself found too many scammers hitting on me then asking for money to get them out of a country or need financial help. So that shut me down from sites...it is hard for a good woman here because we are vulnerable - at least I am and don't like smooth talkers or players. I just want to keep it real - so - we are out there guys.... ))
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