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use a condom even though I am HIV Positive! And she knows that I am. I am not so sure about this idea even though I suspect she may already have it herself. I am a very cautious person and wouldn't want to hurt her at all. We have not slept together yet as I am hoping to take things slow with her. But I am really concerned about her not wanting me to use a condom even though *I* want to use one. She has a 9yr old son and I don't want to give it to her and leave her son without someone to raise him. What should I do or say to her about this?
Thank You!
Wolf1974
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howdidigethere3
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| .no matter what she says you protect her and you. She may pass something else on to you as well as you passing HIV to her. It doesn't sound like she's a very sincable woman so maybe you should be thinking about your choice in a partner, not just your choice about using a condom or not. |
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Use a condom no matter what she says.
I have no clue why you'd even ask.
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radar123
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`She's prob poz too. or worse she may have hep or herpes.
trust your 1st thought & be VERY WARY. Oh 7 even if u did infect her her children wouldnt be orphans til she died of old age HIV IS NOT a deat sentence we will live as long or longer than peep w/hi blood pressure... diabetes...heart disease.. I feel rather lucky (in a weird sense) So keep your head up & follow ur instincts.
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ahooper1024
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`just reading this post has really help me everyon you but ive been with sense like 08 and i finsih high school in 07 was with my second girlfriends t the time and had just lost my v-card you know well when i find out about this life changine mess i broke up with the love of my life and broke her heart ok i have not dated anyone sense . ok i am currently 24 on the 24th of octber ok for the frist 4 years and like 7 months i shut down from the would . which brings me to my question people ok i was rasied to honor my word or even a bet ok . the only reason i am even on this site is because i lost a bet with a game to my 16year old baby brother who by the way other then my grandmother did not change or act different towards me in any way .but i am currently talk to a very sweet young like who for all the right reasons is a perfect mate for me she wants me to come and see her on my brithday and everything but i have not even looked at a female for so long that in my life right now i dont even know what to do and oh to mak things even more messed up i just got out of jail for something i did not do and was let go 28 months after i was put in so i have on been out in sosical settings for like 3 or 4 months now ithanks to the jail i now have PTSD ok and ever time a girl even come near me i panic and hit the floor ii wat to go see this girl but i dont know what will happen when i do and i dont want her to you think i am helpless what do i do in everyday life now for me i am always living in fear what do i do please help yours truly familyman
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