if you are HIV+ would you date someone who is HIV-?

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I met this wonderful guy who is HIV+ but he refuses to give me a chance and date me because I'm (-) he says ill never understand his life and what he goes thru, it hurts and its hard to accept..advice pls

[craigers25]

`The hard part is that everyone handles the illness completely different. In my situation, I met an amazing man right before I found out that I was positive. My outlook on life changed and I feel that I lost a part of myself when I was given the news. In fact I have not had an*l intercourse with another man since Jan 2009. We don't have --- because he is afraid that he is going to contract the disease even though I have done EVERYTHING to keep my viral load down and stay healthy.
I also have some friends that are in the situation as you are. There is fear and doubt in this type of situation. You can try to give them time and hopefully you two can be together. If not, then you have to realize that maybe you are not meant for each other.

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`Hey ... kandykizzez .... are you ----in insane!!!??? I am sure you can meet more ' wonderful guys ' that are - .... why the hell would you want to subject yourself to such a predicament!? I have to say ' thumbs up ' to the guy who denied ... maybe he had some conscience ... from what has been shown in the news, some do not. Oh, wait a min, are you lookin' for da ' gift ' .... don't be so stupid!!!

[hardshield]

`once i chatted with a hiv- people, and he said he doesn't care, because he won't be that easy to get infected if only he prapared well(condoms), but it's also too risky, so i am choosing to stay with someone who is the same as me

[(deleted)]

`No i will not date someone who's (hiv-) i do not think it will nevr work because of the stigma about hiv+ deep in that relationship something gonna happen or said and that's the end of it ..(.this is my opinion)

[pozman777]

`I did it. I dated and fell in love with a man, just before being diagnosed...but being HIV+ ruined our relationship. We loved one another much, but we have ever had real ---. He was so scared. Now, after many years, we are only and just friends. I'm glad it has ended, I could not continue in that thing. TOO STRESSING ..Now I want only meet HIV+ people, both for friendship and romance. No more HIV- dating,for the sake of goodness!

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We have come a long way and the times have changed. I would date some one who is HIV -

[october407cc]

`I just found out I was hiv positive in dec 2011 and I would not date unless they were hiv positive. I don't want to deal with the stress and how they may react. I don't think they would understand and it wouldn't work out.

[judee]

`I think that if two people meet and they are Pos and Neg, if they are both educated about it and take and understand precautions and deal with what the virus could or can bring, it could work. yes, it would be easier to have both Pos, BUT, we must be careful with that as well to prevent from infecting each other with DIFFERENT STRAINS of the virus which could be fatal. Love should have no boundaries or labels, if a gentleman loves me for who I am, bring it on....either case. )