Having kids after being diagonised

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I love kids but I do get scared that it might not work out and end up with another static .what you other guys think ,of course I know about sperm wash but this is expensive. :

[wambare]

`in kenya we dont have sperm wash and even if it was there mos people
would have not embraced it coz its to expensive .however many people living with hiv ae making babys i have mant friends of mine who made babys even after being diagonised . just take heart and go for it,.

[houtxnow]

`Ok, heres a good example for you, my bestbfriend in high school , male, contracted while young in early hiv years when missed in certain blood products, when he was mid twentiews he married, he was undetectable when thenwerentrying to concieve, with more than the normal number of doc visitis to make sure he remainded undecetable... 2 children and a wife never contracted... Thats not abnormal, nor a miracle, but exactly what you can expect in undectable numbers, Dorctors, community leaders, and health zealots that justbspew that which therybtold cannot tell you that you are very unlikley to transfer hiv if younare undectable ... To anyone, whether via sex, or you beled out onto them... But becasue they cant risk the messeege being misconstrued,, they cannot say such things becasue as long as percentage exists, then they must advise on the side of public health. Bottom line,,, stay healthy, undectable, throughout the term check every bit as often as can. They will be fine and so will spouse,,,,,,,sperm washing is a waste and at the expense, thery are not any experts in doing this technique its like washing a new shirt, it wasnt dirty but you paid for drycleaning,,, but hey , it looks a lil duller less in its original s tse. Ull be fine dont worry ur head of if u cover those small things that u likely do already