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I'm with ya, I came looking for S-- that would lead into love, I found her, Mellonhead, smoke a doobie guy!
little57bear wrote: `I have never written in one of these forums
before, but I have to say to 'melonhead'..I love ya bro..BUT.."Judge not lest ye be judged". This site is for people living with HIV (whether poz or with fullblown AIDS)..and is not for you or anyone to judge what they are seeking as far as relationships. Every 'dating' website has it's scammers, users, narcissists, etc., but NOT everyone is looking for marriage. I commend you for your "Christian'' ways (420 friendly??) and that you want S-- AFTER marriage. Some of us are looking for friendships with S-- involved..that doesn't make us bad human beings. I have fought all my life with the fact that I am bisexual, and finally found peace with a man (and myself) over 13+yrs ago. The fact is we still love and respect each other, but my 'hetero' side has needs too...and dissolving a great friendship/relationship was/is NOT an option. We opted from the beginning to be open to each other's needs (and yes, some of those are s----l). I joined this site (and other poz sites) to try and meet those needs...and guess what...There are REAL women out there who want what I want..a casual friendship with S-- but without the bull---- of games, feeling obligated to do anything, or feeling tied down. In fact I have met 2 women just this last year (2009) that I see on a regular basis. They contacted me first from two other poz sites..haven't connected from here yet. That kind of casual friendship/relationship is HARD to find...because MOST women on these POZ sites ARE looking for marriage, so if you haven't found them, then you aren't trying or looking hard enough. So, please don't be judging what people are looking for..To each his/her own...We are all human beings and have our own needs. Peace be with all of you and luck in your searches.
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