Don't have balls to tell anyone yet

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Hi evry1,this is kinda odd,lol,have been diagonised just over a month ago.I'm 30weeks pregnant and my boyfriend ditched me after I told him I was pregnant,as if that was'nt enuf,just got my diagnosis.

Still aint told no1,my mom was devastated when she found out I was pregnant and she went in2 a deep depression,u see I've always been the strength of my family,"the strong 1".Now the thought of telling 'em absolutely freaks me out.I would love support frm them,I so wanna tell them,but I know they'll break down,specially my mom.But I'm a fighter,always have been,don't take no for an answer and don't stop until I get what I want.I pray my baby is born negative.

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`hi there, thats pretty touching.i myself know this since i have been poz for 5 yrs now and still have not disclosed my status to my parents..my siblings know about my status and have been so Supportive of me. I also have a 2 yr old boy who is negative.all you have to do is take care of yourself...the meds are really great when taken consitently,they lower the chances of infection during birth.the doc will prescribe a medication that will not harm the baby.All in all..you will be fine and so will the baby.i keep you in my thoughts and prayer.takecare.
littlelady76.

[sweetspice]

`I have been positive for 13 years I got diagnosed after my first s----l encounter when i was 17 I haven't told anyone except my mom who was there when i was told. She has been my sole support during this time, I had a son 4 years ago and my son's father knows and has been supportive of me and was thrilled when our son was born negative he is a healthy happy little boy, you seem like a strong-minded girl, so keep up the good fight and tell people in your own time.

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`It really up to individual who they really want to tell about status. This is when you will find out who are your really friends and family. When told my friends about my HIV status 13 years ago many of them were supportive. I even had a child with one of my friends after she found out. But, my fathers side family I told no body in till last year because they are very ignorant people and were not much of family to begin with and some give me sympathy and others ran away from me. So, it is really up to you decide who needs to know and is worth it.

[vett8863]

`I haven't told my aunt and my two close cousins. They think that I was in the hospital for something else last year. I don't know how they will react to it. I don't think that they will treat me any different, but what will they think of me? I don't know???

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`HI....i have not informed anybody yet as i have been diagnosed 1 year ago ...so always try to not tell who u really feel that harm u keep away from those who do not trust that they will hurt u.... even in ur family u have ones who harm or hurt u if known always keem this secret and disclose to those who u really trust and know that they do not hurt u and always support u and encourage u....just go ahead according to the trust u have on ones...will not happen anything believe it or not thanks

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`I am positive one ... when i was operated in a developing country in asia then doctors just bought unsafe effected blood from a shop tranfered into my body then i cought it....it is really very unfortuane anyways medications work

[queen4life]

I haven't told anyone besides my mom//but i have posted my profile and pic up on the HIV dating sites so I'm not sure if I care or not if anyone who knows me finds out. I truly feel if the man who gave it to me would have been honest enough to share his status with me alot of things would/could have turned out different. I'm not in fear of ppl judging me or leaving my life. And I'm praying that one day ppl would not walk around lining about their status and having unsafe S-- and giving it to ppl like me. I'm finding out in this Poz world alot of them lie to others in fear of judgment, but so what they judge us. Maybe if some of us be honest with each other we wouldn't be single and lonely. I'm single and alone because too many HIV men are walking around in secret therefore it is hard for me to meet anyone real.