Africandawn96, 53

Here is the deal... I am a very big African with a matching heart to go.. very average looking but content with my life although I am now in need of some tender loving care...and of course reciprocating it....here is the catch...trust me I won't sugar coat it... I am looking for a real man...who is not looking to be mothered by me or anyone else for that matter... but someone who just wants to be loved, treasured and cared for....I am not looking for a man who wants sympathy and has 'victim' rubber stamped all over himself...please don't go any further with reading my profile as I have no intentions of sharing my life with someone who is not happy within themself... I am Hiv positive...I have dealt with it....I am looking for someone looking ahead not someone full of blame and regrets....someone who is comfortable with the fact that I am big and will probably continue to be so indefinitely... someone full of passion and has a zest for life..someone who can love me despite my weaknesses...someone who is genuinely looking for love and not addicted to Hiv dating websites...In return I am declaring my fully fledged love and loyalty to the right and deserving man.... be there to listen..share the good and bad times together...but the long and short of it is....we will scratch each other's backs...and anything else that needs...scratching and I am only looking for someone living in or around Wakefield West Yorkshire uk