I am 5'1" African American female looking for a compassionate driven man who has not given up on life!! Love to read, good conversation and non-partyer, but sometimes like going out. Somewhat social, but enjoy quiet time alone also. Would like a friendship that has possibilities for long term relationship. Ready to LIVE Life, but with some boundaries. No games or BS. I would like an honest, open share your feelings with me kind of REAL MAN!!
I am DEFINITELY not looking for a self pity wo-is-me-man!
Only when we are changed can we be agents of change!
"Tell me what you know and you ENTERTAIN me, but tell me how you feel and you will INTRIGUE me!"
If you share either philosophy,please let me know!
Butterfly39, 53
currently offline
Columbus, OH, USA
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Compassionate woman seeking the passionate man
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'01"
Hobbies & Interests
music, movies, reading, television, travel, wine tasting, writing
Body Type
thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, comedy, drama, horror, romance, romantic comedy
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
red, dark brown
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
single
Have Kids
yes - single parent home
Education Level
post-Graduate
Profession
Other
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
cigarettes, daily
Do you drink?
alcoholic, socially
I currently live
with kids
Socially, I am
the life of the party, social butterfly
Political Views
liberal
Food Related
Soul Food, Chinese, Diet Every Now & Then, Italian, Japanese, Spicy
Personality
romantic, professional, lover, liberal, flirt, extrovert, activist
Religious Views
Christian
Miscellaneous
HIV+
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, relationship, romance, soulmate
My Sign
leo : july 23-aug. 22
Pets
Cat
Gender
Female
Music
Rap, Christian Rock, Gospel, Hip Hop, House, Jazz, Karaoke, Pop, R and B
Hair Style
afro
Health Related
minor health issues
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