My name is Shoky and I'm 27 years old. I have a three year old daughter, separated with her father about six months ago. I have since relocated and moved to a new city for a fresh start. My daughter is currently residing with my family but I'm a devoted parent committed to making time for my daughter both virtually and in person.
I would love to get to know somebody who concise with my perceptions towards life. A person positive beyond their status. Someone confident to carry life on and make the most out of their existence, someone with big dreams and willing to fulfill them.
I'm also looking for someone with a healed heart and mentality. We have both been through a lot at some point in our lives but it's important to validate yourself and love you before seeking love. I love myself, and I believe I can love someone else just as much. So I need someone who doesn't mind dating a single parent who's willing to live her life to the fullest.
You should be full blown straight, and be atleast taller than me. I love a man with a fit body and stamina. He can have any skin tone just as long as he's got a great mouth and body scent. He better be taking care of his health effectively too.
A man who can provide for both of us, and for my daughter and our future kids. A man who understands submissive women who can be both dependent to him and independent to the world.
I need a man who loves openly, and is not afraid of showing his affection privately or publicly.
Chocolatah, 28
currently offline
Johannesburg, South Africa
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About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'4"
Weight
150 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
Writing, Reading, Puzzles and brain teasers, Photography, Internet, Movies, Music, Nudism, Painting
Body Type
Average
Movies
Psychological thrillers, Romance, Romantic comedy, Action, Comedy
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Black
Ethnicity
Other
Relationship
Single
Have Kids
Yes
Education Level
Bachelor's Degree
Profession
Construction / Craftsman
Income level
That's private
Do you smoke?
No - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
Wine
I currently live
With roommate(s)
Socially, I am
Shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
Not interested in politics
Food Related
Omnivore
Personality
Intellectual, Fun loving, Free spirit, Artistic
Individuality
Artist, Designer
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
Miscellaneous
HIV+, Undetectable
I'm looking for
The yin to my yang
My Sign
Sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21
Military Service
British armed forces
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Music
Gospel, Indie, Soul
Hair Style
Dreadlocks
Fitness & Sports
Working out
Health Related
Western medicine
Languages
English
My Preferred Pronouns
She/Her/Hers
Social Justice
Pro-Choice Advocate
Love Language
Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Words of Affirmation
Highly Sensitive Type
Intuitive
High Sensation Seeker
Experience Seeking
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Straight
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