Dwhite, 64

Positive since 1983, found out in 1991.
Looking for a "Sex Life" haven't had
one in years. Have a need for passion
and affection, I really miss intimacy.
The truth is that most people put the wrong foot forward when trying to make a Love Connection. They spew the typical unrealistic crap about wanting to find Mr. or Mrs. Perfect for a long term relationship. This scares off many people that are afraid of or just not ready for commitment. But the reality is that one of these non-commitment types might just be the perfect match for them, and they will never find out. A non-commitment type could quite possibly turn into a committed type if they meet the right person. Good friendships have to be built piece by piece, one step at a time, and going into a new friendship with such high expectations such as wanting long term happy ever after crap, is putting way too high of expectations on your new friend. You are setting yourself up for failure and being unhappy with the results of your searching. You need to meet as many people as you can to raise your odds of finding the right one. And S--
is not a low-life desire, if you think
that all there is to S-- is getting
your rocks off...Then you're misssing
the boat. There are many many other
aspects of S-- other than that. Like
the warmth of another body against
yours, the passionate kisses, the
feeling of being desirable to someone
else. All of these things and much more are a part of s--. As a person
with HIV knows all to well... You need
to feel atractive and desirable. This
disease has a way of making you feel
outcast, and ugly. Some Good, Hot, Passionate S-- may be just the cure
you need to help your self-image, and
self-esteem.