Here Goes Music: Everything but Heavy metal and Rap
Movies: Horror, Scifi, romance, comedy,drama
TV: Roseanne, King of the hill, Golden Girls, Cops, Too many to list
Books: Anything that makes me laugh my head off, shed a tear, think, or that totally pisses me off.
More about me: Crash, burn, get up and do it all over again. Seems to be the best description for my love life. Been single for well over a year now, and am now ready more than ever to focus on dating and hopefully finding my match. Looking for someone who is serious about dating but not pushy. I just like to roll with the flow and usually try not to get stuck on agendas. I'm laid back (kind of a nester), I'm witty as hell and love to make people laugh - yes that comes with a potty mouth sometimes. My family and friends are my dearest treasures in life and I'm hoping to add at least one more category to that collection. I'm just a sane, normal, funny, sensitive guy who wants to meet someone who is sweet, caring, funny, non-judgemental, as close to my age as possible and of course, gainfully employed. Seems that lately the only guys I meet have no job, no car, and are drug addicts/alcoholics with no ambition who are just looking for someone to take advantage of. Not trying to be harsh, but I'm in it for the long haul and I want to build a future with someone - TOGETHERI am currently living in Concord. A couple blocks from bart. I work in San Leandro as a Nursing Assistant. I've been in my share of relationships good and bad. And feel that I have alot to offer someone be it friendship or otherwise. I love long walks, video games, cooking, reading, the rain ( only cuz I like to jump in the puddles when someone is close enough to splash), I enjoy trying new things but must confess that I have allowed myself to become rather a homebody for a very long time. This is something that I have now rectified andI'm meeting alot of new friends and coming out of my shell. I'm very shy when I first meet people and am often
Honestupfront, 53
currently offline
Oakland, CA, USA
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Here Goes
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Gay
Height
5'07"
Weight
130 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
cycling, running, reading, music, movies, killing zombies, swimming, internet, gardening, cooking & recipes, computers, comic books, television, video games, wine tasting, writing
Body Type
slim
Movies
drama, comedy, action, sci-fi, romantic comedy, horror, romance
Orientation
gay
Eye Color
blue
Hair Color
light brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
some college
Profession
Medical / Health Services
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
socially
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
the life of the party, social butterfly, side kick, shy at first, but warm up quickly, home body, flirt, comic relief, better in small groups, anti-social, a couch potato
Political Views
democrat
Food Related
Comfort, Soul Food
Personality
professional, extrovert, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, nerd, playa hater, romantic
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
Miscellaneous
HIV+
I'm looking for
friends only, travel companion, dating, mr. right, penpal, relationship, romance, roommate, soulmate, the yin to my yang, conversation
My Sign
i was born in january, capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19
Military Service
veteran
Pets
Fish, Dog
Gender
Male
Music
Classical, Rock, R and B, Pop, Opera, Motown, Karaoke, Jazz, Dance, Country, Celtic
Hair Style
straight
Fitness & Sports
running, swimming, cycling
Looking for
Orientation
bisexual, gay
Their Sign
capricorn : dec. 22–jan. 19, pisces : feb. 19–march 20, scorpio : oct. 23–nov. 21, taurus : april 20–may 20, virgo : aug. 23–sept. 22
Gender
Male
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