Honestupfront, 53

Here Goes Music: Everything but Heavy metal and Rap
Movies: Horror, Scifi, romance, comedy,drama
TV: Roseanne, King of the hill, Golden Girls, Cops, Too many to list
Books: Anything that makes me laugh my head off, shed a tear, think, or that totally pisses me off.
More about me: Crash, burn, get up and do it all over again. Seems to be the best description for my love life. Been single for well over a year now, and am now ready more than ever to focus on dating and hopefully finding my match. Looking for someone who is serious about dating but not pushy. I just like to roll with the flow and usually try not to get stuck on agendas. I'm laid back (kind of a nester), I'm witty as hell and love to make people laugh - yes that comes with a potty mouth sometimes. My family and friends are my dearest treasures in life and I'm hoping to add at least one more category to that collection. I'm just a sane, normal, funny, sensitive guy who wants to meet someone who is sweet, caring, funny, non-judgemental, as close to my age as possible and of course, gainfully employed. Seems that lately the only guys I meet have no job, no car, and are drug addicts/alcoholics with no ambition who are just looking for someone to take advantage of. Not trying to be harsh, but I'm in it for the long haul and I want to build a future with someone - TOGETHERI am currently living in Concord. A couple blocks from bart. I work in San Leandro as a Nursing Assistant. I've been in my share of relationships good and bad. And feel that I have alot to offer someone be it friendship or otherwise. I love long walks, video games, cooking, reading, the rain ( only cuz I like to jump in the puddles when someone is close enough to splash), I enjoy trying new things but must confess that I have allowed myself to become rather a homebody for a very long time. This is something that I have now rectified andI'm meeting alot of new friends and coming out of my shell. I'm very shy when I first meet people and am often