Leading4life, 43

are you a hot top? i am a down to earth masculine guy who loves life, fun, food, travel, family, art, science, culture, camping and people (to start). i found out i was positive this past summer, 2009. i hate to say, i was lied to by my boyfriend at the time, who did not really want a monogamous relationship, but didn't tell me. i have changed a lot over the last six months and am looking to have a wonderful future. i have a passion for learning, and consequently teaching, fun interesting and exciting things. i want a partner who wants to fall in love. i am a strong, honest person, with a big heart and want to find the right guy for me. i believe communication is a vital pillar of a relationship, who's erection shall be second to none. with my partner, i want not just to see the world and its experiences through my eyes, but through someone else's, garnering a larger perspective of life, allowing for growth beyond myself. i am not this deep all the time. sometimes i like it real deep. i like to go out at night or stay in curl up on my comfy couch and watch a movie. i want to take care of myself and others. i'm a masc guy here and i'm an open minded bttm.
i'm looking for friends - sure! i think it would be great to have some friends who can relate with this multifactorial condition and a couple more gays in my life wouldn't hurt.
in a partner my s----l match is a masculine top. i'm looking to meet someone who has their head on in the right way... a good person, definetly someone honest. i know life can be a struggle, but with determination and support from those you love, you can get through anything. that said, i'm looking for someone who wants to build a relationship together, has ambition, drive and is supportive. someone who can carry an intelligent conversation, a sense of humor and a big heart! beingwill not hurt your standing, though i'd be happy to learn other reasons why i might enjoy your company.