Living with HIV has changed my life, but it has never defined my worth. It has taught me resilience, compassion, and how deeply important genuine human connection really is. I'm here to meet people who understand that a diagnosis is only one chapter in a much bigger story.
I'm an artist at heart who loves creating surreal digital artwork, laughing with friends, taking little adventures, and finding beauty in unexpected places. My faith keeps me grounded, my curiosity keeps me learning and I believe every person has a story worth hearing without judgment.
Recovery and personal growth are important parts of my journey. I'm working every day to become a healthier, kinder, and more authentic version of myself. I know what it's like to stumble, to get back up, and to keep moving forward with hope. That experience has given me a deep appreciation for people who are honest about where they've been and excited about where they're going.
Whether you're looking for friendship, meaningful conversation, or the possibility of something more, I'd love to meet someone who values kindness, respect, humor and open communication. Life is too short for pretending to be someone we're not.
If HIV has taught me anything, it's that our greatest strength often grows from the challenges we've survived. My diagnosis didn't end my story-it inspired me to write a better one. If you're looking for someone who believes in second chances, embraces creativity and sees people for who they truly are, let's start with a conversation.
Norcalwhisper, 50
OnlineRed Bluff, CA, USA
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About Me
Gender
Female, Cisgender Female
Orientation
Queer
Height
5'5"
Hobbies & Interests
Dancing, Internet, Music, Nature, Puzzles and brain teasers, Reading, Shopping, Travel
Body Type
Overweight, Pleasantly plump
Movies
Action, Black & white films, Classics, Comedy, Fantasy, Psychological thrillers, Romantic comedy, Sci-fi
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Blond
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
Divorced, Single
Have Kids
Yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
College grad
Profession
Clerical / Administrative
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
Cigarettes
Do you drink?
In recovery
I currently live
Alone, With pets
Socially, I am
Better in small groups, Home body, Shy at first, but warm up quickly, Side kick
Political Views
Liberal
Food Related
Comfort, Mexican, Sushi
Personality
Coffeeholic, Eccentric, Free spirit, Fun loving, Introvert, Liberal, Total slacker, Tree hugger
Individuality
Artist, Nickelback fan, Paranormal believer
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
Miscellaneous
HIV+, Undetectable
I'm looking for
Conversation, Dating, Mr. right, Relationship, Soulmate, The yin to my yang
My Sign
Cancer : june 21-july 22
Pets
Cat, Dogs
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Christian Rock, Classical, Dance, Hip Hop, House, Jazz-Fusion, Pop, Progressive Rock, R and B, Relaxation and Meditation, Trance
Hair Style
Long hair
Fitness & Sports
Dancing, Hiking, Walking, Working out, Yoga
Health Related
Faith healing, Homeopathy, Meditation, Minor health issues, Therapy
Languages
English
MBTI® Personality Type
INFJ
My Preferred Pronouns
She/Her/Hers, They/Them/Theirs
Social Justice
All Lives Matter Advocate, Climate Change Believer, Death Penalty Advocate, Feminist Movement Advocate, LGBTQ Issues Advocate, Me Too Movement Advocate, Pro-Choice Advocate
Love Language
Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts
Highly Sensitive Type
Empath, Sensitive
High Sensation Seeker
Boredom Susceptibility
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My Groups(11)
Undetectable
685 membersA group for people living with HIV and having an undetectable viral load, meaning that the amount of HIV in their blood is too low to be detected by the tests.
TasP (Treatment as Prevention)
221 membersA group for people living with HIV and actively working to reduce the risk of transmitting the virus to others.
Seeking Companionship
2463 membersA group for people looking for someone to share activities and experiences, who can be there for support and companionship.
Seeking Friends Who Understand
1711 membersA group for people looking to build a network of friends who are living with HIV and can provide understanding and support.
Seeking Romance
1260 membersA group for people looking for relationships with someone who is HIV positive and can relate to their experience of living with HIV.
Wanna Meet For Coffee
1295 membersA group for people who are seeking casual connections and are open to meeting up for coffee or a meal.
Straight
1167 membersA group for heterosexual individuals who are living with HIV and looking for support and connection with others who share their identity.
Herpes Simplex-1
73 membersA group for people living with HIV and herpes simplex-1 virus, which is a type of herpes virus that can cause cold sores and genital herpes.
Herpes Simplex-2
70 membersA group for people living with HIV and herpes simplex-2 virus, which is a type of herpes virus that can cause genital herpes.
HIV-Not Sure Which Type
712 membersA group for people living with HIV and unsure of which type they have, either HIV-1 or HIV-2.
Open About HIV Status, Ask
739 membersA group for people who are open and willing to talk about their HIV status and are willing to ask questions about HIV and its related issues.
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