Pahdah, 54
currently offline
Lancaster, PA, USA
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I know That You are Out There
I know That You are Out There I am very feminine, enjoying taking care of hair, nails, and skin, and such, but I know how to put those things aside when work needs to be done. I have a "get'er done" kind of personality. I work hard, but I also know how to have fun. I learn from my mistakes, but know how to laugh at them and move on. I am extremely honest, fiercely loyal, and a little protective of those I love. I love music and I love to sing and dance (although I sing off key). I hate chick-flicks, but love a good action movie. I also like comedies, so an action comedy is the ultimate! Reading is a favorite pass-time, but in good weather, I like to get outdoors. I am always up for an adventure. I love to see and learn about new places and people. I want to touch a giant redwood, camp under the Northern Lights, learn to ride a motorcycle, ride an elephant in Africa, walk a black beach, and have a cup of tea in England and a BBQ in Australia. I have a wonderful 16 year old son who does not live with me, but is an important part of my life. I am looking for a man who works hard, but doesn't take himself too seriously; someone who will openly communicate with me and is always honest. I want to meet someone I can share a private joke with across the room with only a look. I want a man I can share my deepest, darkest secrets with; the man who will be my very best friend on earth.
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'06"
Weight
140 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
reading, music, movies, internet, computers
Body Type
average
Movies
sci-fi, comedy, action
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
widowed
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
some college
Profession
Other
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
cigarettes, daily
Do you drink?
no
I currently live
with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
better in small groups
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
French, Indian, Japanese, Soul Food, Eat Out Frequently, Chinese, Carnivore
Personality
fun loving, intellectual
Religious Views
Christian
Miscellaneous
HIV+
I'm looking for
the yin to my yang, soulmate, romance, relationship, dating, conversation
Pets
Cat
Gender
Female
Music
R and B, Jazz, Gospel, Christian Rock
Hair Style
straightened, long hair
Fitness & Sports
hockey
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, dancing, gardening, horseback riding, internet, killing zombies, movies, music, naturism, photography, reading, robotics, shopping, sports, target practice, travel, wine tasting, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, fit, large, skinny, slender, slim, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, comedy, drama, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Their Ethnicity
Asian, Caucasian, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American, Other
Relationship
divorced, single, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - do not want kids, no - maybe with the right person, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Fashion Industry / Modeling / Beauty, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Journalist / Writer, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000
Do they smoke?
only when I drink, socially, cigarettes, cigars, clove cigarettes, daily, electronic cigarettes, no - open to dating smokers though
Do they drink?
in recovery, no, socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, with kids, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
better in small groups, comic relief, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
conservative, democrat, green party, independent, liberal, libertarian, not interested in politics, progressive, republican
Food Related
BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Diet Every Now & Then, Eat Out Frequently, Fine Dining, French, Gluten-free Diet, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Omnivore, Raw, Soul Food, Spicy, Sushi, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
coffeeholic, extrovert, fun loving, geek, intellectual, liberal, pirate, professional, romantic, tree hugger
Religious Views
Catholic, Christian
Miscellaneous
HIV+
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Pets
Snake, Snakes, Spider, Spiders, Turtle, Turtles, Bird, Birds, Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Farm Animal, Farm Animals, Ferret, Ferrets, Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse, Horses, Monkey, Rabbit, Rabbits, Rock
Gender
Male
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