Rdy4love, 54

searching for my soulmate I'm a 37 yr old man living with hiv. I found out in april of 2008 and i've now learned to live with it. I had been single for a little while when i got the news and then thought i would spend the rest of my life alone. I know now thats not true so i got this computer hoping i could find somone like me to start a relationship with. I'm very honest no matter what the situation. I'm also outgoing and have started an hiv support group in my area. The closest one is atleast 20 to 30 miles away and i have a lisence problem(temporary) so i started my own. I am also a recovering alcoholic, don't worry my last drink was on oct 13th 2007. Anyway whoever has interest in me has to accept the fact that i go to AA meetings regularly, also i refuse to date or start a relationship with a drinker. I don't want alcohol in my life in any way what so ever! I am also very thoughtfull and considerate. I have a real good sence of humor and love to joke and play around, but i also have a serious side. I'm also very responsible and i'm not looking for money. I'm looking for somone i'm attracted to although i consider personality and a few other things more important. I'm also looking for somone with a healthy apetite for sex, not every day but atleast 4 or more times a week. This person should be completly honest no matter what and doesnt keep secrets. I'm looking for a lifetime relationship that starts out slow, get to know each other before jumping in with no life jacket so to speak. I dont know what else to say except i hope this person exists and i'll be praying that we find each other soon.