Seanderekjamies, 45

looking for a partner in crime i'm looking for a hassle free relationship with i man i don't have to constantly keep justifying myself to. i'm quite spiritual but not religious, my spiritual outlook is of a more pagan persuasion, but i am not looking for anybody whose life is governed by their faith. i am a very caring and considerate person, extremely selfless and very affectionate, although i'm not looking for an arm to constantly be attatched to as i do appreciate my own space from time to time. i am very relaxed and easy going but can become rather irritated by people that over complicate things. i got my diagnosis in august 2010, since then i have been educating myself in various ways about how to best mantain my health both s----ly and mentaly. at the moment i'm going through a transition of non disclosure to full disclosure as i am now comfortable with the knowledge and experience i have gained in the past couple of years. although i have been out of work since october 2011 due to depression, i am now much better and i am currently searching to get back into full time employment. my main motivations at the moment are to 1. get back to work, 2.pay off my debts, 3. consentrate on my volutary work, and 4. save for an extended road trip around europe in two years time. i suppose what i'm looking for is a man of similar age and circumstance. i am definately looking for a longterm relationship, but i am by no means looking for the first man who comes along as i very much feel the need to achieve my current goals. i am more than open to the idea of meeting new friends, and regardless of how serious this profile may sound, i actualy realy am a very fun person who is easy to be around, i'm just now at that stage in my life where i know exactly what i want.