I’m a woman who’s lived, loved, lost — and still chooses to believe in love.
I’m HIV-positive, diagnosed many years ago, and my story carries both pain and power. I lost my husband in 2003 to HIV — he was the one man who truly loved me. I also lost my firstborn in 1999. These experiences shaped me, but they didn’t break me.
I’m now a proud mother of two incredible boys, aged 25 and 17. They’re my joy and my daily reason to smile. Life hasn’t been easy, but I’ve built something beautiful out of the pieces.
I’m an empath, highly sensitive, and deeply intuitive. INFJ personality — which means I love deeply, care fully, and crave meaningful connection.
I enjoy simple, soulful things: cooking with love, stargazing in silence, laughing with my kids, hiking in nature, or getting lost in a spontaneous adventure. I wouldn’t mind dating someone with kids — I value family and emotional presence more than anything.
I’m a proud Kikuyu living in Maasai land — I rock Maasai attire with pride and never say no to good nyama choma! Culture, laughter, and connection make my heart full.
Shikumwaura, 49
Online
Kajiado, Kenya
SHIKUMWAURA'S MEMBERSHIP AWARDS
I’m an HIV+ orchid — soft, intuitive, and radiant in th
About Me
Gender
Cisgender Male, Female
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
5'2"
Weight
150 lbs
Body Type
Average
Movies
Drama, Comedy, Black & white films
Eye Color
Black
Hair Color
Blond
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
Single - never married, Single, Separated, Divorced, Committed, Widowed, Dating someone special
Have Kids
Yes
Education Level
Some college
Profession
Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Plumbing / Electrical / Contracting, Sales / Marketing, Transportation / Trucking, Fashion Industry / Modeling / Beauty, Construction / Craftsman, Artistic / Musical, Agriculture / Farming
Do you smoke?
No - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
Socially
I currently live
With kids
Socially, I am
Social butterfly, Shy at first, but warm up quickly, Comic relief
Political Views
Not interested in politics
Food Related
Hot Sauce on Everything
Personality
Romantic, Lover, Fun loving, Extrovert, Entrepreneur, Coffeeholic, Activist, Free spirit
Religious Views
Voodoo, Scientology, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Inter-Religion, Christian
Miscellaneous
Flat-earther, HIV+, TaSP (Treatment as Prevention), Undetectable
I'm looking for
Fun, Conversation, Dating, Relationship, Romance
My Sign
Gemini : may 21-june 20
Military Service
Veteran, Canadian armed forces, Air force, British armed forces
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Hair Style
Shag
Fitness & Sports
Hiking
Languages
English
MBTI® Personality Type
INTJ, INFJ
My Preferred Pronouns
Mix Them
Love Language
Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Words of Affirmation
Highly Sensitive Type
Empath, Orchid, Sensory Defensive
High Sensation Seeker
Experience Seeking, Thrill Seeking, Boredom Susceptibility, Adventure Seeking
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My Groups(31)
On PrEP
87 membersA group for people seeking HIV prevention through the use of antiretroviral drugs and other strategies.
TasP (Treatment as Prevention)
123 membersA group for people living with HIV and actively working to reduce the risk of transmitting the virus to others.
Undetectable
394 membersA group for people living with HIV and having an undetectable viral load, meaning that the amount of HIV in their blood is too low to be detected by the tests.
Seeking Companionship
2793 membersA group for people looking for someone to share activities and experiences, who can be there for support and companionship.
Seeking Emotional Support
1204 membersSeeking Emotional Support - A group for people looking for a safe and supportive space to work through lifes challenges and difficult emotions.
Seeking Friends Who Understand
1986 membersA group for people looking to build a network of friends who are living with HIV and can provide understanding and support.
Seeking Romance
1244 membersA group for people looking for relationships with someone who is HIV positive and can relate to their experience of living with HIV.
Wanna Meet For Coffee
1450 membersA group for people who are seeking casual connections and are open to meeting up for coffee or a meal.
Bisexual
565 membersA group for bisexual individuals who are living with HIV and looking for support and connection with others who share their identity.
Straight
1354 membersA group for heterosexual individuals who are living with HIV and looking for support and connection with others who share their identity.
AIDS
142 membersA group for people living with AIDS, which is a stage of HIV infection that is associated with certain symptoms and illnesses.
Co-infected
218 membersA group for people living with HIV who also have another infectious disease, such as hepatitis B or C.
Hemophiliac
37 membersA group for people living with HIV and hemophilia, a rare condition in which the blood does not clot properly.
Hepatis A
34 membersA group for people living with HIV and hepatitis A, an infectious liver disease that is caused by the hepatitis A virus.
Hepatis B
64 membersA group for people living with HIV and hepatitis B, an infectious liver disease that is caused by the hepatitis B virus.
Hepatis C (HCV)
132 membersA group for people living with HIV and hepatitis C, an infectious liver disease that is caused by the hepatitis C virus.
Herpes Simplex-1
68 membersA group for people living with HIV and herpes simplex-1 virus, which is a type of herpes virus that can cause cold sores and genital herpes.
Herpes Simplex-2
69 membersA group for people living with HIV and herpes simplex-2 virus, which is a type of herpes virus that can cause genital herpes.
HIV-1
1136 membersA group for people living with HIV-1, a type of human immunodeficiency virus that is the most common cause of HIV infection.
HIV-2
338 membersA group for people living with HIV-2, a type of human immunodeficiency virus that is less common than HIV-1 but is still found in many parts of the world.
HIV-Not Sure Which Type
953 membersA group for people living with HIV and unsure of which type they have, either HIV-1 or HIV-2.
HPV
89 membersA group for people living with HIV and HPV, a common virus that can cause warts and other skin problems.
Long-Term Survivor
796 membersA group for people living with HIV for a long time, who have been managing and dealing with the virus for many years.
Newly Diagnosed
640 membersA group for people who have recently been diagnosed with HIV and are looking for support and advice from other newly diagnosed people.
Newly HIV Positive
925 membersA group for people who have recently tested HIV positive and are seeking advice and support from others in a similar situation.
Open About HIV Status, Ask
840 membersA group for people who are open and willing to talk about their HIV status and are willing to ask questions about HIV and its related issues.
Private About HIV Status
210 membersA group for people who want to keep their HIV status private and are looking for a supportive space to talk about their experiences in a confidential way.
T-Cells (High)
757 membersA group for people living with HIV who have a high number of CD4 T-cells, which are important for fighting infections and keeping the immune system healthy.
T-Cells (Low)
171 membersA group for people living with HIV who have a low number of CD4 T-cells, which can make them more prone to infections and illnesses.
Viral Load (High)
126 membersA group for people living with HIV and a high viral load, meaning that there is a large amount of the virus in their blood.
Viral Load (Low)
103 membersA group for people living with HIV and a low viral load, meaning that there is a small amount of the virus in their blood.
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