Stiggerr, 50

I am newly diagnosed hiv positive and I still have no idea how to feel about it or how to cope with it.. I am healthy at least I think I am.. I eat right, work out, don't drink or use drugs (anymore). I am scared that hiv positive means the end of dating and flirting and that special feeling when you first meet someone and that attraction and nervous anxious feeling.. can I still get that? have that?