25 years poz in April of 2012 In August of 2005 I took a much needed break from the dating and 'h--k up' scene. It has been quite an adventure and quite rewarding. I enjoy cooking, gardening, walking, movies, concerts, shows, and road trips (the TSX is a BLAST to drive and 35 mpg on the highway ain't shabby!).
I LOVE to cuddle and snuggle. I can also get into the wilder side if you have a mind to explore...
I have a BIG heart and enjoy spending time with my family. I am looking for a guy 25-40 ish. Eyes and a smile get my attention; and I'm most attracted to slim to average built guys.
I'm a great listener, masculine with a quirky sense of humor and I can be reserved at times. I enjoy time with my brothers and sisters and their families. I enjoy life and all it has to offer - from NASCAR to Opera, walks in the woods, a drive in the country, horseback riding, snuggling on the sofa in front of the fire, watching a good movie, I'm a novice digital photographer.
I retired on disability in 2006 after 20 years in healthcare. I was a substance abuse counselor for 7 years and then worked in staff and management development. In my last position I reported to the vice president of performance management of the 3 hospital system and led a team charged with improving and maintaining excellent patient satisfaction.
Thebearmartin, 68
currently offline
Atlanta, GA, USA
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25 years poz in April of 2012
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Gay
Height
5'11"
Weight
230 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
photography, history, gardening, fleamarkets, cooking & recipes, baking, reading, horseback riding, internet, movies, music
Body Type
large, a few extra pounds
Movies
comedy, drama, action, indie, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
gay
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
white / gray
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
college grad, Bachelor's Degree
Profession
Medical / Health Services
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
in recovery
I currently live
with an insignificant other, with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, better in small groups, home body, loner
Political Views
independent, liberal
Food Related
Indian, Chocoholic, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Mediterranean, Italian, Thai, Omnivore
Personality
liberal, activist, coffeeholic, flirt, frugal, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, lover, nerd, romantic, thrifty, tree hugger
Individuality
beard
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual
Miscellaneous
HIV+
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, relationship, romance, something interesting
My Sign
scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21
Pets
No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Male
Music
World, Bluegrass, Choir, Classical, Dance, Folk, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Opera, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, R and B, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Soul, Trance
Hair Style
buzz cut
Fitness & Sports
walking
Health Related
meditation, diabetic
Looking for
Their Body Type
athletic, average, disabled, fit, skinny, slender, slim
Orientation
straight, gay, bisexual
Relationship
single, seeing someone, single - never married
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Gender
Male
My Photos

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