Optimism is a character flaw I only want to live my trip free life and share some wit and banter. Life isn’t all laughs and weather though. I like deep articulate conversation on an emotional level. You can’t have understanding on an open level and expect for there not to be some vulnerabilities.
I stand for my character and forgo assertiveness.
Historically speaking, I have never felt comfortable in making the first move.
I quit browsing the vacuum of the mindless.
It does pay to step out of character sometimes.
I don’t find people very special. Although, some do have amusing antidotes, a few have talent.
No offense, but I really don’t want to be part of someone’s collection.
I am not much of a s----l entity. I am sure it is like riding a bike. My bike isn't broken, it is just seems like too much work for such a short ride. It has been so long since I have ridden a bike. Do I even like bike riding anymore? I suppose if I had a friend to share a bike ride with, I might entertain. Although, then I would only wonder if I am peddling to fast or if I am climbing off the bike before an exhilarating ride down a hill. Anyone who bike rides with me would have to like a lot of short rides. I never get any urges to go ride a bike. I would have to be pleasantly convinced as my tire pressure is being checked.
Leave it to me to mentally complicate a bike ride.
Nobody wants to cultivate or nourish anything anymore. Why should they when they can find someone of like mind and get whatever they are looking for without putting in the time to make it notable? Of course, everything, including friendship, is disposable.
Preservation is always an after thought, especially when it comes to relationships.
Assurance, comfort, and emotional security are all qualities that go unrecognized until it is gone.
The only dumb question is the one not asked.
Travp, 54
currently offline
Rural Area, MO, USA
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Optimism is a character flaw
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'00"
Weight
140 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
writing, movies, internet, gardening, computers, cooking & recipes
Body Type
slim, skinny, slender
Movies
drama, action
Orientation
straight, celibate
Eye Color
gray
Hair Color
blond
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Other
Do you smoke?
daily
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with pets, alone
Socially, I am
home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
republican
Food Related
Carnivore, Omnivore
Personality
conservative, intellectual, introvert, loner
Individuality
tattoos
Religious Views
Atheist
Miscellaneous
HIV+
I'm looking for
the yin to my yang, relationship, penpal, friends only, conversation
Military Service
army
Pets
Dog
Gender
Male
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cooking & recipes, gardening, internet, movies, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, slim, slender, skinny, average
Movies
drama, action
Orientation
straight, celibate, asexual
Eye Color
blue, black, brown, glass, hazel, green, gray
Hair Color
red, a little gray, auburn, black, white / gray, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown
Their Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latino, Caucasian, Asian, Indian, Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, African American, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander
Relationship
divorced, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house, no - do not want kids
Their Education Level
some college, high school grad, college grad
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Other
Income level
that's private
Do they smoke?
socially, daily, only when I drink, no - open to dating smokers though
Do they drink?
socially
They currently live
with pets, with parents, alone, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
loner, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly, better in small groups, anti-social
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Carnivore, Omnivore
Personality
professional, nerd, loner, introvert, intellectual, geek, fun loving, conservative
Individuality
piercings, nudist, tattoos
Religious Views
Atheist, Not Religious, Agnostic
Miscellaneous
HIV+
They are looking for
penpal, relationship, the yin to my yang, conversation
Their Sign
i don't believe in zodiac signs
Military Service
veteran
Gender
Female
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