Whendsea, 52

My name is Wendy. I tested positive while pregnant with my second child in 1992. He passed away in 1997.
My other son is an adult and not infected. I do not have anymore children and am incapable of making more. I am a grand mother.


My first husband died after a lengthy illness in 2001. My second husband died unexpectedly in our home in 2011.

I do not want sympathy I am just throwing my baggage out there.

It's okay to acknowledge my losses but I'd rather think about happier things.



I am a sweet natured, empathic, honest, girl next door type. I am a military brat. A very fair skinned, sun sensitive girly tomboy. A jeans and tshirt kind of girl.
I think intelligence is sexy and modesty too. I appreciate tactful honesty. With my history I do not need nor desire any drama. Sincerely, I've had plenty thanks.



☼ I'm more bold online than I am in person. I am an introvert and slightly socially awkward and shy until I am comfortable with a person. Once I am comfortable I am lovable and silly. ☼



I'd like to meet someone local. I want chemistry and attraction. An attentive, caring, intelligent partner. Honesty is very important to me.
I am nice to everyone regardless of age, race, gender, religion, whatever. As long as they are nice people. But I have always been attracted to white men.

Caucasian features are what I like.